Quick Wear: Reversing Life

Chapter 439 Her Deaf Boyfriend (23)

Facing Qin's angry and confused father, Qin Zhen appeared calm and indifferent.

"Whether he is good or not is one thing, whether I am willing or not is another."

Hang Zhanrong is a good marriage candidate, and Qin Zhen is not opposed to contacting Hang Zhanrong, but Qin Zhen is dissatisfied with his father and mother's urging and behind-the-scenes instigation.

In fact, although Qin's father and mother had urged him to get married many times at the dinner table, Qin Zhen just regarded it as a routine lecture by the elders who were worried about the marriage of the younger ones.

Qin Zhen thought that her emotions were quite stable. She had experienced so many ups and downs, and no one could really anger her.

But Qin Zhen still frowned at what his father said.

"Zhenzhen's personality is too strong, which is not good for her future husband."

There is no doubt that in Qin's father's eyes, a woman's character should be gentle and submissive.

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Qin's father is a very traditional and typical male chauvinist.

He has no prominent family background to support his business, and the company has grown so big entirely by himself.

The marriage structure of Qin's father and mother is also very traditional, with the man working outside and the woman working inside.

Qin's father worked hard outside, while Qin's mother stayed at home to take care of her husband and children.

Therefore, Qin's father also believed that the final destination of women is to take care of their husbands and children.

Qin Zhen could work in the company before marriage, and her father never hesitated to teach and train her, even praising her frequently. However, her father always believed that Qin Zhen would eventually get married and marry into another family.

He praised Qin Zhen sincerely. He doted on his daughter and gave her a house and a car from the bottom of his heart, but Qin's father always framed Qin Zhen as a "female".

Women will always get married, and their final destination will always be their husband's family, where they will be vassals of their husbands.

Just like Qin's mother, she met Qin's father at a business event before they got married. She was an outstanding career woman, but after getting married, she returned to her family.

Qin's father also hopes that his daughter will become a good wife and mother like his wife, taking care of her husband and children at home.

Qin Zhen actually does not discriminate against any good wife and mother. The so-called good wife and mother is just a role in the female group.

Good wives and mothers have never been a comparison group of strong women. They are all roles in society. Everyone has their own hardships. How can one be nobler than the other?

It's just that people should choose the roles they play voluntarily. Qin Zhen was very unhappy with Qin's father's self-evident certainty.

It is said that behind every successful man there is a woman who silently supports him.

But Qin Zhen didn't want to be the woman who was forced to be a background figure.

Therefore, when Qin's father said, "Zhenzhen's personality is too strong. It's not good for her future husband. She needs to change."

Qin Zhen couldn't hear any warmth in these words coming from his father, only the scolding of the lower-ranking person by the higher-ranking person in the patriarchal structure.

What's even more ridiculous is that as a father, he has accompanied his daughter's growth for more than 20 years, but in the end he would worry about an unnecessary son-in-law because of his daughter's strong personality.

But don't say it's for his daughter's good. If he really considers his daughter's perspective, he should find a son-in-law who is willing to tolerate her strong and bad temper, instead of just saying something at the dinner table and asking her to change.

Qin Zhen asked directly:

"Have you never thought of letting me inherit the family business?"

Father Qin frowned. "Zhenzhen, don't think that just because you've made some achievements, you're capable of controlling the entire company. Managing a business is not that simple. It takes a lot of time and energy."

Qin Zhen said calmly, "Just say it directly, okay?"

Mother Qin came to Qin's rescue: "Your father doesn't want you to be so tired. The responsibility you bear is too great. You can obviously choose a more relaxed life."

Qin Zhen said: "It's my business whether to choose or not, but you guys don't intend to give me the chance to choose."

Mother Qin asked, "So you don't plan to get married in this life?"

Qin Zhen knew what his father and mother meant.

If she took Qin's father's position, the company would belong to her husband's family after marriage.

"I know you're strong-willed, but women eventually have to get married and return to their families," Qin's mother said. "Once you get married, where will you find the energy to manage the company and balance family life?"

"So you just want Qin Zhi to inherit, right?"

"Qin Zhi is a boy. He can bear more pressure and responsibilities, and he has more energy. And Qin Zhi is your biological brother!"

Qin's mother didn't understand. The dowry they prepared for Qin Zhi was not small. She had everything she wanted, including houses, cars, shares, funds, cash, jewelry, and gold. Why did Qin Zhen insist on destroying the company?

Wouldn’t it be nice to just relax and wait to collect the money and enjoy yourself?

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Qin Zhen had lost the desire to refute.

When did taking on responsibilities and pressure become linked to gender?

In fact, Qin Zhen rarely uses other people's cognitive levels to benchmark herself, and meaningless debates are what she hates doing most.

Since the gentle approach doesn't work, don't blame her for being radical.

Qin Zhen said: "Forget about the marriage with the Hang family. I won't carry it out."

This angered Qin's father.

He slammed his chopsticks on the table and growled, "Why are you throwing a tantrum? Is marrying Hang Zhanrong wronging you?"

Mother Qin kicked Father Qin's foot and said, "Stop talking."

"You know how big their group is! In what way is Hang Zhanrong unworthy of you?"

"Alright! Let's eat! Stop talking!"

Mother Qin frowned and kicked her husband again.

Qin's father didn't say anything at the moment, but he was still angry. He immediately transferred Qin Zhen overseas.

When Qin's mother found out, she first scolded her husband and then went to find Qin Zhen.

"Qin Zhen! Just give in to your father!"

Qin's mother couldn't understand why her daughter, who was obviously obedient and well-behaved before, became so domineering after starting work.

"Mom understands you. I also worked hard in the workplace before, but after getting married, I gradually returned to my family."

"Your father is a bit too stubborn, but Hang Zhanrong is really good. He's only three years older than you and the youngest in the family. After you get married, neither of you will have to shoulder too much responsibility and can live your own lives. Isn't that great?"

"Besides, Hang Zhanrong is quite handsome, has a good personality, and doesn't have any messy affairs. Why are you so repulsed by him?"

Mother Qin sighed: "If you really don't like Hang Zhanrong, that's fine. Just find someone you like and bring him back to show your father."

Qin Zhen had already started packing her luggage. She glanced at Qin's mother. The lady, who was nearly fifty years old, was well maintained and had few wrinkles at the corners of her eyes.

She has a good relationship with Qin's father and their marriage life is very smooth, so she also believes that her daughter will live a happy life like her after marriage.

Qin Zhen said: "You returned to your family after marriage of your own free will, but I don't want to go down this path."

People live in this world without following a formula and having to do things at a certain age.

"Which path I want to take, whether to get married, when to get married, and who to marry are all choices I make on my own."

Mother Qin was stunned. She watched Qin Zhen pack up the suitcase swiftly and could not say a word.